Catch them doing something new, something that is an act of GROWTH.
The other day I was leaving a hotel with my wife and we realized after we were home (2 hours away) that I forgot my garment bag in the closet, and it was full of clothes!
Now this kind of thing has happened to me before, and in the past I would have blown a fuse. I didn't this time for some reason. After a few days and calls the hotel found my clothes and shipped them up to our house.
My wife's simple comment: "I was surprised how well you reacted to realizing what happened. You weren't like that before." I loved that comment. People love those kinds of comments because they show someone is:
1.) Aware of changes you want to make in your life.
2.) Watching for those positive changes.
3.) Reminding you of the change, and the GROWTH.
Be that someone. BE A HERO. IT IS NOT HARD. YOU JUST HAVE TO BE A CURIOUS AND WILLING WITNESS.
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